Guanxi “關係”

In regard to the discussion about the term, guanxi, in our textbook, I have a complex feeling towards the phenomenon that the social network of Taiwanese people is based on guanxi, which is a kind of relationship Taiwanese people share with other people around them or in their lives. As mentioned in class, if I establish a guanxi with a vender owner; in other word, I become a frequent patron, I may be treated some additional service which needs no payment for. This kind of guanxi can be extended to my friends if I introduce them to the vender owner. They possibly have the same service like I receive from the owner.

As a Taiwanese person, I don’t find this social network between people complex. We can benefit people around us and receive some assistance from people whom we share guanxi with. Sometimes, when I am in need of help which my parents cannot offer, they ask for their friends who can help. And they help me without asking for any repay at that moment. Once we use guanxi to ask other to help us, we are expected to repay when being asked for help in the future, which is considered as obligation and etiquette of asking for favor. This guanxi system really makes me feel warm in heart. The practice of guanxi can be seen everywhere. That is a part of our lives.

However, sometimes I do find this system troublesome. I will feel unfair if someone uses guanxi to win a position in job instead of using his or her ability. Though feeling so, I won’t complain too much because I live in this society. Besides, everyone may do that. That is the way our society goes.


Sharon zheng